LEAVE KIM ALONE!: Why Kim Winslow-Bashing Brings out the Worst in MMA Fans
When I went online Monday morning, I was expecting a certain amount of…oh, what’s the word…irrational hand wringing over the actions of MMA referee Kim Winslow.
Full disclosure: I didn’t actually see the Strikeforce card this past weekend for a number of reasons, chief among them the fact that I’m in Mexico, where a Showtime subscription is rarer than an honest police officer (trust me on that one). But, like the true fan that I am (my eyes are rolling too, don’t worry) I’ve since watched the night’s fights online. I’m fully caught up on the awful officiating atrocities that went down Saturday night.
And let’s get this out the door now: there is cause for complaint in the refereeing of Kim Winslow. No doubt about it. The argument can be made both that she made improper stand-ups, and stopped the fight too late in the Muhammed Lawal vs. Lorenz Larkin fight. I’m not going to insult your intelligence by pretending her actions were entirely beyond reproach. There’s room for argument there, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Fun fact: not an MMA event goes by without SOMEONE in my group of watchers complaining about the actions of the referee AT LEAST once. Once per fight, that is.
You know the scene: you’re watching the fights with your friends, beer in hand, smile on face, nacho cheese stain on Xtreme Couture sweater-vest (I wish). The fight is fun, the action rollicking. Best part – the guy you and your friends kinda sorta want to win because he’s from your country, or has a funny nickname, or is Clay Guida, is winning.
Then all of a sudden, just when your boy is on top and whaling away, the referee stands the the token Brazilian guy/Jesse “The Water” Bongfeldt/Clay Guida up.
“That’s bullshit!” your friend, who’s had a couple Pabst’s and is feeling froggy, shouts at the screen. “That’s BS! F*ckin ref! Mario Yamasaki/Dan Miragliotta/Yves Lavigne/whoever is the worst ref in MMA!”
And so it goes. Fan b*tching about refereeing is nothing new in sports. You need only attend any Yankees game, any Montreal Canadiens game, any Manchester United game, or any gathering of people in the city of Philadelphia to see folks spewing absolutely outrageous hatred towards referees. It’s an institution in sports, one I wouldn’t want to see go away no matter how much eye rolling it inspires. Referees aren’t kings, and questioning their calls – especially when they’re dead wrong – is part of what keeps them honest.
Remember the night referee Yves Lavignes completely bungled the Phillipe Nover – Kyle Bradley stoppage? Remember how fans in the arena booed Yves with a passion every time his face was shown on screen for the rest of the night? Remember how fans were calling Yves “the worst referee in MMA” on MMA blogs and forums? Remember how Yves had to publicly apologize for his actions to fans?
Yeah, me neither. That’s because, like the rest of the MMA world, it was out of my mind by the time I was having my Monday morning coffee. I also don’t remember how Yves once got in seriously hot water for calling Josh Koscheck a p*ssy (in so many words) for not standing and trading with Paul Daley.
In a similar vein, I’m having trouble recalling the night Dan Miragliotta basically gave Kimbo Slice the fight against James Thompson in the closest thing to a worked fight I’ve ever seen in MMA. I’m also a little foggy on the night Steve Mazzagatti stopped Brock Lesnar from jerking off Frank Mir’s nose in his UFC debut, and no less an MMA authority than Dana White called Steve “the worst referee in MMA”.
In every one of those cases, the story was almost a non-story. Sure, us fans stomped our feet and hollered to the high heavens – for a few minutes, at least. Then we got over it. Far as I know, Yves, Steve, and Dan are all still MMA officials, and no one is calling for their resignations.
Yet we’re still talking about Kim Winslow on Wednesday, practically an eternity for referee b*tching. And what’s more, we have fighters coming out of the woodwork, using the Winslow-shaped straw man (straw woman?) as an excuse for their own loss. Trevor Smith seems to feel Winslow’s actions in the Lawal fight were a reaction to her early stoppage in his own fight. Yeah, that sure sounds nice…
I’m going to go ahead an throw the gauntlet down right here: the reason we’re even still talking about Kim Winslow is because she’s a woman. Plain and simple. When a man screws up in a high-testosterone “man’s” sport (and it is, just ask “Cyborg” Santos) it’s a story for five minutes. We b*tch, we feel better, we move on to the next thing.
But when it’s a woman who screws up, the criticism and complaints take on a whole new energy – not to mention a decidedly sexist tone.
Not to get too basic on you, but sh*t happens. Mistakes are made. Just because “Big” John McCarthy ignored Jake Shield’s repeated grabbing of the trunks against Martin Kampmann doesn’t make him any less the best referee ever. Just because Steve Mazzagatti deducted a point for strikes to the back of Mir’s head without first warning Brock doesn’t mean he secretly hates guys from North Dakota. Just because Yves and Dan and all the rest made mistakes – big ones – doesn’t mean they have “no business being in MMA” like many have said of Kim Winslow.
Everyone makes mistakes, to err is human, and all that. Kim Winslow made a mistake officiating Saturday night, meaning she now joins the proud ranks of every MMA official ever, in the history of always.
Time to move on, folks.
By Elton Hobson
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It wasn't the Mo fight that bothered me....
It was the Villante vs. Smith fight. Villante dropped Smith, Smith works for a leglock while eating hammerfists….and Winslow stops it, while Smith is searching for a sub.
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I love your posts, but she’s straight up awful. From the terrible ponytail to her inability to see that a fighter is handfighting to stop an RNC, not tapping. Awful.
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by mmazing on Jan 10, 2012 6:41 PM EST reply actions 11 recs
I have 2 reactions to this
1) Fair enough. Those are legit complaints, and I have no answers, mainly because I’m not Kim Winslow (last time I checked, anyways). However, I would say that in my opinion, Dan Mirgi basically giving the fight to Kimbo Slice, and Yves Lavigne doing a slapstick comedy routine during the Nover/Bradley fight must rate at least AS BAD as Winslow stopping the King Mo fight too late on Saturday, no?
2) You love my posts. I am a tickled japanese schoolgirl right now (still not Kim Winslow, however).
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Consistency matters
She is consistently bad
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by halitosis on Jan 10, 2012 9:27 PM EST via mobile up reply actions
I think this is a big point. We’ve seen Mirg improve, I would say. That Kimbo fight was so long ago.
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by Tim Bernier on Jan 11, 2012 12:04 AM EST up reply actions
Agreed 100%
I get nervous when she’s in there. I have beef with any ref making a bad call, but Kim is consistently bad.
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I was pissed when herb missed that guy in TUF tapping, Mazzagatti pisses me off a LOT, I was pissed when Joe Cooper took points away from Amir Khan for simply pushing Peterson off of him to avoid clashing of heads, I was pissed when Kim Winslow almost let Cuddles DIE, I was pissed at the bad stoppage in the Villante fight also by Winslow, and I was pissed at her when she allowed Larkin to take way too many punches too.
Your OMG SEXIST charge is a bit misplaced here.
by Rob Young on Jan 10, 2012 6:49 PM EST reply actions 5 recs
Well maybe
But that’s only because I’m Mike Fagan’s alternate BE account. Now don’t get me started on Denis Hallman’s penis.
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But you were ok with whatever ref it was that let Belfort smash Akiyama’s brain stem repeatedly and gave him the win anyway? Not to ape Hobson, but I don’t even remember who that was.
by mcgriff on Jan 11, 2012 2:32 PM EST up reply actions 3 recs
That happened so damn fast and it was Yamasaki
I didn’t look it up so if it wasn’t lol and chalk me up as someone who can’t remember.
I was pretty concerned about that stoppage at the time so I watched it a few times over. Only really one or two punches to the back of the head that could have been avoided.
Your complaints should be directed at the commission and not the ref anyhow. That fight was over way too quickly for Mario to have been able to stop it.
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by Luke Nelson on Jan 11, 2012 10:54 PM EST up reply actions
Amir deserved it. He got warned repeatedly, and kept it up the whole fight.
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Don't want to seem like a dick here..
But should a woman officiate a mens combat event? I admit i feel fearful for hers and the fighters safety when they announce her name. I have to question if the shit were to hit the fan ala the SF brawl or even God forbid Gilbert Yvel, would she be able to handle herself ? I know its a worst case scenario and Im sure Kim is more than capable of doing her job, but maybe theres a reason why they dont have female refs in the NHL. Shit can get hairy
Tiny hurts people. When he loses his temper he goes completely out of control and his huge body becomes a lethal weapon. It is difficult to see what role he might play in the Great Society
I dunno about the whole gender thing.
But honestly there are times when the safety of the ref concerns me. My folks and I was watching a PPV at my grandpa’s (can’t remember if 131 or 135, hell it could’ve been VS 6 – anyway) and there was this one short scrawny guy, a toy practically, who was reffing a fight between with bigass heavy weights. Personally I think there should be size restrictions for refs depending on division ’cause that poor kid could have gotten hurt. Scares the hell outta me, ya know?
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Yeah
I’m not saying that they all have to be Big John or Dan Mirg huge, but it sure did serve Dan well when Paul Daley decided to fuck around.
Tiny hurts people. When he loses his temper he goes completely out of control and his huge body becomes a lethal weapon. It is difficult to see what role he might play in the Great Society
by ODBasyoucansee on Jan 10, 2012 7:50 PM EST up reply actions
He is also big enough that he took Gono and pushed him

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I for one have no problems with gender for the referee, but I want them to be able to handle their own in a worst-case scenario.
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by Zachary Kater on Jan 11, 2012 8:36 AM EST up reply actions
If I remember correctly
I don’t think the ref that Yvel went after was particularly better suited to handle himself than Kim would be.
yeah
i thought that to myself after i pushed post
Tiny hurts people. When he loses his temper he goes completely out of control and his huge body becomes a lethal weapon. It is difficult to see what role he might play in the Great Society
by ODBasyoucansee on Jan 11, 2012 2:15 PM EST up reply actions
I have no problem with a female ref if she's good
Kim Winslow is not good and i don’t think she should be officiating a women’s combat event either.
I dont like Kim cause she looks like an extra on the set of The Walking Dead.
And she seems to not fully understand the fight game. Her sex doesn’t bother me, only the thought of her HAVING sex does, and only cause I know I will never get a chance to tap that ass!!
by I_Mad on Jan 10, 2012 7:25 PM EST via mobile reply actions 3 recs
No. Just...no...

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by dajulzta on Jan 10, 2012 7:35 PM EST up reply actions 6 recs
nope, for so many reasons.
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by El Pablo Diablo on Jan 10, 2012 7:40 PM EST reply actions
Too many to list, amirite?
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by hobbie on Jan 11, 2012 12:10 AM EST up reply actions 1 recs
they have all been covered.
no need to repeat whats already said. I just think she doesnt belong in the cage at all, for all of those reasons covered in as many posts.
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by El Pablo Diablo on Jan 11, 2012 3:35 PM EST up reply actions
Herb Dean is the best ref ever.
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by halitosis on Jan 10, 2012 9:43 PM EST via mobile up reply actions 2 recs
Exactly
Do you EVER remember him doing anything that was just flat out WRONG, like a “WTF WAS HE THINKING” moment because I sure don’t.
Really?
You’re saying Kim Winslow almost let someone die but Rosenthal has never done anything wrong? Anytime my friends and I see Rosenthal is the ref we joke that somebody is going to die. Look, just watch this fight: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Amyl7iYSP8 . Recognize the ref who is seriously fucking up there?
by mcgriff on Jan 11, 2012 2:37 PM EST up reply actions 3 recs
(I don’t think that’s the link you meant to post)
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by Our Bovine Public on Jan 11, 2012 4:25 PM EST up reply actions
That video is so right.
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But that's the problem with Rosenthal
He lets fight drag on. If there is a serious lull in action, Rosenthal never breaks it up, whether it’s cage stalling, lay n’ praying, or fighters just standing in front of each other.
I think Rosenthal is either too afraid to be criticized for his decisions or is too passive to get in there.
That being said, he is one of the better ones, just not the best.
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I personally like his style
Far too many refs feel the sting of the crowd’s boos and capitulate to their blood thirsty demands.
I’d way rather have less stand-ups, less cage breaks, all that. Let them work.
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by Luke Nelson on Jan 11, 2012 10:58 PM EST up reply actions
Finally. Rosenthal is easily number 1. Just an FYI, he reffed Brock vs Carwin, Silva vs Sonnen, and Hendo vs Shogun, all fights that were reffed beautifully. He could’ve stopped Brock vs Carwin and Hendo vs Shogun too early, but he let them fight appropriately. And he put an end to any and all nonsense with Sonnen potentially trying to quicktap out of the triangle. Josh pisses excellence.
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by Tim Bernier on Jan 11, 2012 12:11 AM EST up reply actions 3 recs
He was also really really bad at one point
Rosenthal is on a roll lately, but lets see if he can keep it up consistently.
by discoandherpes on Jan 11, 2012 12:52 AM EST up reply actions
He could’ve stopped Brock vs Carwin and Hendo vs Shogun too early,
I don’t see how you can say ‘too early’.
If either of those fights was stopped nobody would’ve argued.
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I would have
Because those stoppages would have been early.
by discoandherpes on Jan 11, 2012 10:27 PM EST up reply actions
He also reffed Varner\Shalarous
And his reffing changed a fight that should have been a win for Varner based on point deductions alone into a draw.
Rosenthal still has his issues and when they pop up they’re big issues.
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This!
Rosenthal is easily the best right now. Sure everyone makes bad calls but lately he has made awesome calls and I don’t remember too many errors.
by taptomyarmbar on Jan 11, 2012 6:24 AM EST up reply actions
Glad to see I'm not the only one who feels this way.
I loved when whichever fighter tried to claim he’d been poked in the eye, and Josh basically said “No, you got punched in the eye, the fights over.” The crowd all started booing until they showed the replay, and turned out, Josh was spot on.
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by Zachary Kater on Jan 11, 2012 8:38 AM EST up reply actions
Josh Rosenthal, who let Tom Hardy fight with a serious shoulder injury that completely incapacitated an arm for more than a round?
by Arran on Jan 12, 2012 12:27 AM EST up reply actions 5 recs
That movie was awesome up until that point. Still a v good movie but that was just awful.
by taptomyarmbar on Jan 12, 2012 2:59 AM EST up reply actions
yeah....
I probably proved the authors point with that one.
I believe Kim to be a competent ref who can occasionally make mistakes like anyone else.
by I_Mad on Jan 10, 2012 8:41 PM EST via mobile reply actions
No, Herb Dean is NOT the best ref ever...
… I kind of chuckled to myself when he let King Mo unload about a dozen extra shots to Larkin’s noggin.
I guess he was over compensating for the PREMATURE stoppage he made when he stopped Fedor-Hendo.
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Yeah because when he’s refereeing fights he likes to think about the stoppage he made in a fight he refereed almost 6 months ago.
by originaldude on Jan 10, 2012 9:05 PM EST up reply actions
Fedor was OUT
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by halitosis on Jan 10, 2012 9:44 PM EST via mobile up reply actions
Damn son
You still butt hurt about Fedor losing? You would think that someone pissed in your Cheerios while you woke up in Miguel Torres surprise van.
Herb didn’t even ref the King Mo/Lorenz Larkin fight.
by discoandherpes on Jan 11, 2012 12:53 AM EST up reply actions
I’m fairly sure that Herb Dean is not Kim Winslow, and had nothing to do with the Mo/Larkin stoppage. But that’s just me.
by KyroJudo on Jan 11, 2012 2:04 AM EST up reply actions 6 recs
Actually
Having seen quite a few Kim Winslow fights, though she has a few stoppages I disagree with, I find her to be a pretty average ref.
Don’t back off, you’re pretty much right on with this fanpost.
by Scott Whitaker on Jan 11, 2012 12:12 AM EST reply actions
Yeah, we hate refs who let guys who are clearly unconscious get punched in the face 15 times. I detect some sexist undertones. You know whats sexist? Acting like a woman being very rightfulled booed and pitchforked deserves a pass because you believe the outrage is sexist.
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by Hendo_One-Shot on Jan 11, 2012 1:00 AM EST reply actions 3 recs
It's the "rightfully" part where I take issue
I have no problem with people taking issue over her officiating. That’s not only fine, it’s warranted.
But it seems to me that the Winslow hatin’ has far surpassed the vitriol hurled at other (read: male) referees for what I feel were greater errors. Thus, I’m calling shenanigans and saying we’re all just worked up because a woman making a mistake in a man’s cage fight gets our testies in a special kind of twist.
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by hobbie on Jan 11, 2012 1:39 AM EST up reply actions 5 recs
I was playing league of legends at the time of that comment, that’s my defense and I’m sticking to it. But I still don’t think it’s fair to generalize it like that. People still hold a grudge against officials all the time. Just look at cecil peoples. and Mazzagatti as well.
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by Hendo_One-Shot on Jan 11, 2012 4:30 AM EST up reply actions
I don't know about that
Mazzagatti, for instance, is widely despised, and people seem to find ways to criticize him no matter what. It’s like every ref sooner or later does something that pretty much ruins their reputation and is always brought up in relation to them, and this is probably Winslow’s moment. For instance, for Mazz, it’s Lesnar-Mir I, for Miragliotta it’s KImbo-Thompson, for Yves Lavigne it’s Matt Brown-Pete Sell. Only Big John and Herb Dean seem immune from this.
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by VenusBlue on Jan 11, 2012 5:57 AM EST up reply actions 3 recs
FUCK no. I hurl even worse vitriol towards Jon Schorle for the bullshit he did when Strikeforce was in Houston the first time.
He’s even worse than Kim. I don’t know what was worse, the Noons/Gurgel buffonery or standing Bobby Lashley up off of Chad Griggs when he had full mount, effectively destroying his MMA career in the process.
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Great point. Winslow’s refereeing was pretty shoddy on Saturday night, but the tone of the criticism has been awful and gone on for way too long.
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She is not competent
She shouldn’t be on big shows until she demonstrates sufficient level of competence imo – some might say she shouldn’t be reffing at all.
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Alright I love your writing, but I have to disagree for pretty much what everyone else said.
Maybe I’m just an exception to this, but I remember every one of those situations you brought up with the other referees.
It’s still hard to believe Big Tan Dan did the Kimbo fight, because he’s normally a decent ref, and that was one of the most bizarre things ever. He also fucked up with the Carwin-Mir fight, he apparently hates Mir more than BE does. But he has enough matches where things go off without a hitch that I can somewhat rely on him.
Now Steve Mazzagati, he’s horribly inconsistent. He never improves. Some fights he’s great in, but there are too many where he’s subpar to trust him. Plus, he’s inconsistent as hell with the way he officiates in the first place, when speaking of things such as stand-ups and how long he’ll go before he’ll stop a fight. I think Brock tapped 7 fucking times before he made Mir let go of him in the first fight. So it’s hard to gauge what I’m going to get from him in a given fight.
If the Nover fight that Yves reffed was on the same night as I’m thinking of, that wasn’t his only severe mistake. He stopped that one too quick, then let another guy get brutalized in a later fight because the crowd got to him. Made him look incredibly incompetent. Thankfully, he’s seeming to get better.
Herb’s good but makes mistakes. Big John isn’t as good as people proclaim, he’s prone to mistakes as well. Josh Rosenthal is God. Yamasaki is hit-and-miss.
Now my first problem with Kim Winslow is sticking her in with LHW. I think the same thing when Steve or Yves (that rhymed) or Saki is in there. I thought she was appropriate size-wise to put on WEC events, and they should continue to use her for the lighter weights only in the UFC, but I’m not sure how the commission decides those things. My biggest problem with Ms. Winslow is her hesitance. I sometimes wonder if she is fully aware she’s made a lot of mistakes, and over-analyzes everything for fear of messing up again. She’s constantly too far away from the fighters, seems leery of getting in between them to stop a fight, etc… Granted, I’m nowhere near LHW size and wouldn’t dream of trying to stop King Mo from punching someone. Blah, this is too long.
TL;DR I pretty much hate all MMA refs, and the ones I don’t took a long time to earn that respect from me. Kim hasn’t reached that point yet due to inconsistency and no signs of improving. Using sexism to defend her just sounds like an attention-grabbing discussion-starter to me.
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Wow, lot's to digest here
You’re memory is spot on (or we’re both wrong lol) and your breakdown of the different refs seems pretty accurate to me. TBH, I don’t really have a problem with any of them, in that they all seem mostly compotent and occasionally make mistakes. You know, like any referee in any sport since the first caveman threw the first ball to another caveman, and the first referee disallowed the yardage due to the first pass interference.
The only exception is Big Tan Dan (great name BTW) fixing (IMO) the Kimbo/Thompson fight. I agree he’s usually fine, but I’ve never forgiven him for that atrocity.
Now let’s break down your complaint:
Now my first problem with Kim Winslow is sticking her in with LHW.
Whoa whoa whoa there cowboy, that sounds a little mysogni…
I think the same thing when Steve or Yves (that rhymed) or Saki is in there.
Phew! Call off the PC police. Yeah, she’s small for the heavier weight classes, like you said. I’m just not sure I agree with the conventional wisdom that says a referee needs to be as physically imposing as the fighters to lay down the law. If a referee steps in to stop a fight for whatever reason, the fighter should stop. It shouldn’t matter what size they are. In an ideal world, I guess.
My biggest problem with Ms. Winslow is her hesitance. I sometimes wonder if she is fully aware she’s made a lot of mistakes, and over-analyzes everything for fear of messing up again. She’s constantly too far away from the fighters, seems leery of getting in between them to stop a fight, etc
Hm, well I’m not sure you can really make the claims you’re making here with %100 certainty. She’s “constantly” too far away from the fighters? Like, never once has she been not too far from the fighters? I think this comes from only recounting her bad experiences and not taking the career as a whole. MMA referees are working all the time, at regional shows across North America (and beyond). I suspect (but I don’t know) that Winslow’s record as a whole compares favourably with the Yves, Steves, and Dans of the MMA reffing world.
Using sexism to defend her just sounds like an attention-grabbing discussion-starter to me.
I’m not using sexism to defend her, so much as I’m using it to attack her critics. I don’t think Winslow’s actions are beyond reproach, merely that the fan (and media, and fighter) reactions have been disproportional to the severity of the offence. I think her being a woman is why. That’s all.
And I’ll be sure to make my next article a non-attention grabbing one that starts no discussion at all :P
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
'Constantly' was definitely a poor word choice...
But it happens enough to where it sticks out in my mind. Just like Mazzagati letting a guy LnP for a whole round in one fight, then standing a guy up from a dominant position 30 seconds in on another fight. It’s aggravating to me when referees get in the way of a fight, it takes away from the purity of the sport IMO.
And yes, all sports have referees making bad calls, and it’s inevitable. All that can be done is putting forth proper training to ensure referees are as qualified as possible. This is a huge problem for MMA in general though, I think. Sometimes it seems any guy (or girl) with a karate background can become an official for a fight.
I’m always going to read your articles, I’m bound to disagree with one. :)
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by Zachary Kater on Jan 11, 2012 10:58 AM EST up reply actions
It’s still hard to believe Big Tan Dan did the Kimbo fight, because he’s normally a decent ref, and that was one of the most bizarre things ever. He also fucked up with the Carwin-Mir fight, he apparently hates Mir more than BE does. But he has enough matches where things go off without a hitch that I can somewhat rely on him.
Didn’t he also ref Werdum/Vera?
I remembered not liking him for a long time, and I’m trying to remember why. I thought the Werdum/Vera stoppage was pretty bad.
I too love your pieces but disagree completely
No other ref has the ability to make me fearful for a fighters safety like Winslow does
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by Our Bovine Public on Jan 11, 2012 9:00 AM EST reply actions
Well hey, that's a perfectly valid opinion
Chiek Kongo makes me fearful for fighter’s future children, so I feel ya brotha. And every time I see Dan Mirgi reffing a fight I feel like the fighters need medication for radiation poisoning, but that’s just me.
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
It's a good post and I can respect defending the ref, however
I get uneasy when I see that Kim is reffing a fight and I get kinda mad when mazagati is reffing one. I think they have the worst track record in the game of blatantly screwing up. I have been watching a long time and these two stand out as refs that make me cringe. I can’t go on and point out each instance that some above me in the comments have because I don’t care to look it all up. What I do know is they have done enough to get that branding from me.
I’ve been a referee for hockey since I was 14 and I have been yelled at, cussed at, threatened, ect ect ect so I know exactly how it feels to be in their shoes and yea, I’ve messed up as every ref does. What I want from a ref is consistency while making calls correctly much more often than screwing up.
I can keep going but this is a comment, not a FanPost…..
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Great insight
As an official yourself you are uniquely qualified to comment on this whole controversy. And I completely agree, in politics and in officiating – consistency is key. Also, is being a referee as thankless a job as I think it is? I mean you do your job right and NO ONE gives a single sh*t, make one mistake and you’re despised. Gotta have thick skin, mesathinks.
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
It's not that bad
For the most part if you nail calls and properly handle them people wont bitch too much and will actually compliment you after the game. There’s always “that guy” and you always deal with them ASAP. I have handed out more 2 min unsportsmanlike conduct penalties than anybody. Just about every one of them was added onto a penalty when the player was crossing the line verbally or physically after being warned. Everybody always complains to an extent and I always say “from where I was and what I saw, what you were doing and what happened made me make the call”. If it would be a soft call I usually just let em play because, it’s hockey, don’t be such a baby.
I think a lot of poor fight ending calls have to do with miscommunication between the ref and fighters. I don’t know what the refs do pre fight with their talks to the fighters but I imagine it’s not enough. I would explain to them how I would call the end of a fight for not intelligently defending themselves, how I would try to communicate to them if they were locked up to see if they wanted to continue with a yes or no question of “Are you OK?”. I would tell them the EXACT and ONLY phrase I would ask them during the fight and what response I should expect from them in each case, I would not stop a submission unless they went out, tapped or something popped or broke. I would stick to what I said in the locker room.
I also don’t think that refs fully understand the responsibility they have in MMA. Their calls directly effect another persons lively hood (Pay, health, record, ect). They are judge, jury and executioner to the fighters out there and need to do everything possibly to make the right calls every time.
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This is such a lazy knee jerk sexism accusation.
It’s a well written piece but in order to make your point you simply pretended that the same vitriol that was hurled at Winslow wasn’t hurled at other shitty refs (with the same “tone”) when it’s far from the truth.
Well this is only my opinion
But to me, it seems like Winslow is getting more flack than I’ve ever seen a referee get for a poor call. Like, I don’t recall any other time a fighter who lost on the undercard coming out and saying “Yeah, what happened an hour later on the main card in a completely unrelated fight was an over-reaction to the bad stoppage in MY fight.” I mean the fact that we’re even entertaining Trevor Smith’s notion as semi-serious is mind boggling to me.
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
I like you Hobbie
But I thinks its ridiculous to tell other people who they can be mad or complain about and why.
Calling everyone sexist was inaccurate and lazy(like Rob said). I don’t care what gender she is, she messed up very badly. I’ve always found her to be too timid to safely ref, especially at the higher weights.
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However
But I thinks its ridiculous to tell other people who they can be mad or complain about and why.
Yet you think I shouldn’t be complaining about the reaction to Kim Winslow’s foul-up?
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Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
Thanks for putting words in my mouth
I’m saying that your opinion about it doesn’t matter at all because you don’t have the right to tell anyone how to feel.
So, no. Its not like that at all.
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I’m also saying its flat out pompous, arrogant and ignorant to say that everyone is secretly sexist.
Get off your high horse because we really don’t care.
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Oh man, I don't even know where to start
Except to say you suddenly got way too serious on me brotha. Relax a little. I didn’t mean to get personal on you, if that’s indeed what I did. If you think Winslow is a bad ref, there’s nothing I can really say back to that. It’s a perfectly valid opinion, one that’s clearly not in the minority. I just don;t think her actions Saturday merited the anger fans (and fighters) sent her way.
And speaking of “putting words in people’s mouths”, I don’t recall ever saying everyone was secretly sexist. That’s stretching it so far that Reed Richards and that guy who can hold weights with his dong are shaking their heads in disbelief.
And “we” (the BE community) doesn’t care about what I have to say? That shit hurts, man. That shit cuts deep.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I’ll be on my high horse with my 9 recs, 71 comments, and all the “flat out pompous, arrogant, and ignorant” people who have indicated in this thread they agree with me.
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Woo Hoo
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by hobbie on Jan 11, 2012 11:48 PM EST up reply actions 1 recs
Why do the pot and kettle have to be black?
That’s racist.
by Rob Young on Jan 11, 2012 7:23 PM EST up reply actions 4 recs
Haha I know!
I have silver pots!
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by Luke Nelson on Jan 11, 2012 11:02 PM EST up reply actions
You misunderstand good sir
It’s cooking wear I have a problem with. Just sitting there, cooking my tomato soup, judging me.
YOU GET A JOB!
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
Complaining about bad calls, bad fights, bad post fight jokes is part of the week after an event
Get used to it dude.
I’m going to go ahead an throw the gauntlet down right here: the reason we’re even still talking about Kim Winslow is because she’s a woman. Plain and simple
I thought it was because you wrote this post :)
No, your dumb
by RashadsLeftNipple on Jan 11, 2012 2:37 PM EST reply actions
I wrestled long and hard with that notion
Especially when I mistakenly thought Tuesday was Wednesday and wrote such in my blog, thereby extending the whole farce another day.
IT’S ALL MY FAULT!!!!!!!
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
Thank you for making this point.
Kim Winslow is remarkable for two reasons: she is a woman, and she looks like an objectivist. Her reffing is not remarkable. I haven’t seen the fight where she stops it before the tap, but I did see the fight where Rhonda Roussey got the stoppage despite her opponent tapping. I don’t know who the ref was there, probably because the ref was neither a woman nor someone who looked like an objectivist.
that was Steve Mazzagatti and he actually made the right call
It was a verbal submission. If you yell out when your opponent is attempting a submission move, then that is considered a verbal submission. In this specific instance Mazz also explained that to the fighters personally prior to the fight.
I didn’t watch the fights, but I doubt a lot of people care if she is a woman or not.
I bash bad refs all the time, it’s a difficult job and they need to be told they suck if they do, male or female. It’s a matter of fighter safety and sporting integrity.
It's just a world, it's just a life.
Couldn't agree more.
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
This isn't because she's a woman
She’s a bad ref
Mazzagatti’s a bad ref
Chip Snyder’s a bad ref
Jon Schorle’s a bad ref
People get pissed when fighters take beatings that they should have done and Winslow lets that happen
She’s not without her positives
When she’s good she’s good
But when she’s bad she’s horrid
Also
I wish refs were more accountable for their actions. I can understand them making mistakes but it would be nice to hear them come out and either justify their actions or say ‘I made a mistake and I’m sorry’
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by Our Bovine Public on Jan 11, 2012 7:37 PM EST reply actions
Big Jon broke a fighters nose accidentally
I’ve yet to see any other ref make a similar fuck up
JUST REWATCHED IT
really not even a bad stoppage, don’t see the complaint here. His arms were still moving, until Larkin complains….. She did fine.
Well, 17 strikes with the right hand in the final sequence.
It looked like he was knocked out by the 10th one and woke back up upon subsequent strikes.
He was certainly flailing differently during the 11th to the 17th blows.
Stoppage could be considered late. Whatever though, not a big deal.
The big deal actually came after, in the form of King Mo’s comments. You should point your pen at him because if anyone was acting in a sexist manner it’s him. Fighter’s never speak that way about referees in the post fight. He stirred up an issue, the media took it to Kizer and that becomes post fodder on a Tuesday afternoon, you shouldn’t be mad at us for discussing it.
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You misunderstand the article if you think I'm "mad" at anyone lol
Just voicing an opinion counter (or not) to the popular opinion. Interesting idea about King Mo however, you could be absolutely right on that one.
Invincibility lies in the defence; the possibility of victory in the attack. - Sun Tzu
well I mean, it's the internet
I know you aren’t mad.
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by Luke Nelson on Jan 12, 2012 12:24 AM EST up reply actions
I think Mo already had a low opinion of her for the Cyborg/Cuddles fiasco.
and he most likely saw the bad stoppage in the Villante fight from backstage. This was a ref that had a pretty bad history in terms of fight stoppages or lack thereof before Mo even stepped in the cage and if that wasn’t the case then I doubt Mo would have said anything because I don’t think anyone expects refs to be completely perfect. This was simply a bridge too far for Mo and that is why he spoke to her like he did post fight. He was quite civil when he brought it up to her as well.
Yeah, I don't know about that. It makes sense at first....
….that he potentially had it in his mind that she was a bad ref before the fight and all that, but he sat in Larkin’s guard and hammered him mercilessly.
If what you say is true one might have expected Mo to maybe pull back a little bit, perhaps pause once or twice so that Larkin could have covered up or something.
It just looked like he hit him with full power over and over until she stopped the fight. If I though going into the fight “this ref has been involved in bad stoppages”, I might try to finish it in a different way than he did. But a fight is a fight and if he indeed was aware of all of those things and still chose to finish Larkin the way he did, well, to each his own. I’m not mad.
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so you would rather see him do this:

by Rob Young on Jan 12, 2012 4:29 PM EST up reply actions 2 recs
bottom line
you can’t stop fighting until the ref steps in. if you even hold back a bit it has the potential to bite you in the ass.
Worst in the game.
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by Derek Suboticki on Jan 12, 2012 9:24 PM EST reply actions
Kim really seems unsure of what’s happening in there sometimes. I have no issue with female refs, but I think she’s need more training.
Keith Kizer coming out supporting the Larkin stoppage is not really helping matters. Referees need to be evaluated on their performances and have their mistakes pointed out and explained so that they can avoid making similar errors. Unfortunately, Kim does not appear to be learning from her mistakes.
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See, I wouldn't go as far as declaring her completely incompetent.
I just feel that she consistently has bad judgement in the cage, that’s all.

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